May 12, 2009

After the rain comes a bow.

You know, friends are hard to come by. The ones that will stick with you through thick and thin, regardless of the countless obstacles you face, those are true friends. Much less to say, all that we've been through all this while?

Yes, it might seem that way that whosoever was "backstabbing" you. But before choosing to believe in that without any clarifications, can you pls think

How long have we known each other?
How long have you two known each other?
How much had we been through?

Okay, maybe it might not seem like a great deal to you my friend, but it means a whole lot to me 'cause what you're doing now, is telling me how weak our friendship have been. That no clarifications is needed before easily making your verdict of the type of friend she'd been, before being upset over the whole matter. But in actual fact, everything was just a phonecall away, a message away. Instead, you chose to swallow the whole misunderstanding, decided whether whoeever are worthy to be your friends. Now pls tell me, what are friends for? Are friends just for being companions in stuffs that you do? No I don't think so. When I value someone, I value the person for a lifetime. I wish to value that person for as long as I can bring myself to.

Why am I saying this? Simple. I value our friendships, you'd know me by now, I won't stand at a side and see people around me involve in silly conflicts that are so unreasonably childish. Downright silly. That could have been dealed with so easily. Having known her for so many years, being close with her for so long, I'm disappointed that you still hadn't known what type of person she is. As far as I know, I'd definitely never for once would act on impulse like you did based on sucha silly weeny tag, sucha stupid matter, to spoil the friendship which had not come by easily.

If you're wondering why I'm bothering to even talk about such stuffs, it's because you're like giving up on our friendships on this stupid matter. I'm so disappointed that our friendship is less worthless than a stupid thing like this that you've to think the way you did. I hope this make you think again, cause if you don't, I've tried and believe it or not, it might actually cause us all to drift. Further. If nothing is done.

I hope no offence is taken on whatever I've said. If it does, the main purpose of the post will just backfire.

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